The whole thing was a hoax right from the start.
You are not a proper disciple and the other person is not a qualified Guru.
These two people enter into a funny relationship which is based on falsehood, on untruth.
Then begins the tug-of-war.
I will obey my Guru as long as he tells me what pleases me.
If he says something that doesn’t please me, then I begin to doubt.
Probably he is not the right type of Guru.
Then perhaps you pick up one of Swami Sivananda’s books and quote from somewhere where it says :
"Be careful in your choice of a Guru and accept him only after testing him severely and finding out that he is the proper one to be your Guru."
First he says that you cannot become a Guru without attaining self-realisation,
secondly he says you must obey your Guru implicitly,
and thirdly he says that you must examine your Guru before accepting him.
Sri Swami Venkatesananda
To be continued ....